"The bio on his website seems so impressive with all his achievements and awards as well as titles and published works. I am admittedly a fix-er-upper of a spouse who could use some work. We both could use some TLC to get back on track. We saw him once per week for ore than a year. My spouse and I wound leave almost every appt nit picky, frustrated and angry at each other. Unfortunately that is NOT how we arrived. I felt he was overly difficult with me vs always supporting my spouse with everything. I though maybe it was me, so I made a test situation where he already ruled me to be out of line. Reproduced the same situation exactly except roles reversed. Guess who was bad person again? The inequality I felt caused me to lose all respect for him and the process he was peddling. I observed my marriage deteriorate each week. I had to quit to stop the weekly damage. When I inquired if he could help up learn some tools to foster better communication toward eachother, I was told to find someone else for that since he wasn't going to waste his time. Funny thing is he started something along those lines when we first met. I was amazed. A patient asks for some help and the doctor says its a waste of his time? Don't we as a couple get an opinion on our counseling treatment or preferences?"